dreemurr99

dreemurr99

Male
Last online 3 months ago
Delray Beach, FL
First off before anything, I am a terribly shy person, very trusting but also slow to trust (if you can understand that paradox then we are already off to a very good start). If I message you it is because you REALLY peeked my curiosity but if you see something you like here by all means message me and let's see if we can nerd out together.
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Second off since this apparently matters in today's new politically charged climate, I voted for and fully support our president. I am a pure capitalist and America is the greatest country in the history of the world. If any of this bothers you even in the slightest bit then it won't work out. Why? Because what you believe in (including and perhaps especially politics) shows you who you really are - or at least a prevailing part of it.
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Anime, D&D, games, Disney, books, movies, lore (and to a lesser extent) politics and philosophy basically define and shape my life.
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I believe that your interests, beliefs, and values say a lot about who and what you are. And since I believe life and time is a precious commodity here is as much as myself as I can think of.
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So without further ado... and in no particular order of importance:
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Examples of favorite games: Starcraft, Diablo, Hearthstone, Heroes of the Storm, Magic the Gathering, Warcraft(RTS&MMO), Baldur's Gate, Rust, DayZ (when it works), Undertale, Final Fantasy 7 & 8, Dungeons & Dragons, Stellaris, Civilization (mostly III but V is okay), The Secret World, Planetside 2, Ori and the Blind Forest, The Forest, Dust: An Elysian Tail, The Sims, SimCity, Amnesia, Factorio, Banished, Command & Conquer series.
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Examples of favorite movies: Dragonheart, The Messenger, The Matrix, Pirates of the Caribbean, Hearts in Atlantis, The Fifth Element, Lord of the Rings, Saving Mr. Banks, Any Disney movie, Don Bluth movies (if you don't know who that is then you might be talking to the wrong person), All the Dungeons & Dragons films, The Man from Earth, The Chronicles of Narnia, Ready Player One, Star Wars (new movies not so much, 7 and Rogue One was okay), Back to the Future, Indiana Jones.
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Examples of favorite shows: Star Trek, Rick & Morty, 80s & 90s cartoons, The Twilight Zone, Game of Thrones, The Walking Dead, Once Upon a Time, Stranger Things, Inuyasha, Spice & Wolf, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Re:Zero, Stein's;Gate, Overlord, My Hero Academia. Gurren Lagann, Black Lagoon, (a lot of anime...), Critical Role!
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Examples of favorite lore/books: Warhammer 40K, Blizzard games lore - Chris Metzen is amazing, The Alchemist, Eragon, Lord of the Rings, Stephen King novels (love his work, hate the author himself), Harry Potter series (though I hate the author), Redwall series.
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Examples of favorite comics/webcomics/manga: Twokinds, Spice & Wolf, Berserk, Good Cheese,
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Examples of favorite hobbies/pass-times: writing, poetry, drawing (mostly anime/manga/anthro), animation, blacksmithing, programming, pseudo-marital arts, archery, gaming, walks on the beach or through parks at night, guitar and piano (though I am not very good per se).
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Examples of favorite idols/actors/writers/historical figures/famous people in general: Walt Disney, Nikola Tesla, Jesus Christ, Donald Trump, Abraham Lincoln, George Washington, Thomas Jefferson, Joan of Arc, Martin Luther King, Leonardo da Vinci, Pope John Paul II, Michael Jackson, Christopher Paolini, Chris Pratt, Sir Ian McKellen, Sir Patrick Stewart, J.R.R. Tolkien, C.S. Lewis.
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My favorite fiction tropes/genres: fantasy, sci-fi, angels, demons, Lovecraft, time travel, beyond-reality, magic, anthro, horror, riddles.
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I believe in: paying back kindness with kindness, always say thank you and always be appreciative of those who do you a kindness, harsh words with patience and if that doesn't work harsh words of your own, without learning we are nothing but animals and we must always be learning and expanding our minds, time should never be wasted, resting and fun is never a waste, take life slow, appreciate and absorb your surroundings, everything matters (the little, the big, the unimportant, the important, facts and feelings), never replace someone who cares for you or that makes you yourself replaceable, loyalty is an important an underrated virtue in this time, your words is your bond, the person you are in a relationship with should also be your best friend and one and only, with life there is possibility even if it seems unbearable to continue, insulting should always be a last resort and only towards those who have disrespected you, respect everyone until they have given you a very good reason to no longer respect them, its not a conspiracy theory if its true :P, never waste a holiday, if you love someone always make sure they know it even if you are mad at them, pick your friends wisely and not because they are just there, never let anyone influence what you think, always think for yourself, always pay your debts now matter what it is and who it is too, if you do something wrong always apologize, it is never too late for anything, always forgive if someone seeks forgiveness, do not forgive someone who seeks no forgiveness, if you love someone you will make it work no matter what because true love is the most important thing there is, live and let live, agree to disagree, disagreements should never compromise love, people say and do stupid things always remember to forgive or apologize if you are the one saying and doing stupid things, honesty is the best policy, you do not deserve someone at their best if you can't be there for them at their worst, never blame someone for the situations life puts them through, patience is always a virtue.
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I don't believe in: the dating game, playing games with people's hearts, trying people out like you test drive cars, intimacy before commitment and love, the modern world's obsession with material gain and showing it off (though I am perfectly willing and often do enjoy its comfort and convenience), replacing things over fixing things (this goes with people as well), choosing ease over comfort, choosing easy over what is right, caring what other's think if I know my choice to be right even if that means standing up to those closest to me (I might have Harry Potter to thank for that...), choosing feelings over facts (although that does not make feelings unimportant), organized religion being the only way to find God or the truth (though I can appreciate and enjoy it just the same), Socialism/Communism outside of small and close-knit communities, judging people based on appearance unless those appearances are extreme because at that point appearance says something about you as a person, blaming someone for being down or depressed, taking out your frustrations on someone else, hypocrisy - if you hate others for what you do or indulge in then I want nothing to do with you, shopping as a pass time - except for window shopping, that's fun.
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I like to speak in flowery, archaic language because language is a beautiful thing, words and names have meaning and power, and because I like to sound fancy every now and again. :P
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I tend to speak in quotes... movies, books, games, memes.
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I often take things too literally even though I am prone to speaking in sarcasm, metaphors and puns. I am a walking paradox.
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I am a game developer.
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Political tendencies? Was Libertarian, now Right-of-Center. I watch Ben Shapiro and Louder with Crowder from time to time though too much political stuff recently has given me anxiety induced cancer (not real cancer for those who read too literal as I tend to).
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Religion/beliefs? Raised Christian. Believe in Jesus. But it's complicated.... My beliefs are... layered and complex and can sometimes conflict with each other. I believe the truth is out there and that just like perfection the perfect truth will never be obtainable but should always be sought. A journey vs the destination thing I guess.
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I have few friends because who I call my friends is important to me. I am friendly everyone (unless they give me reason no to) but I do not call just anyone my friends. Friends to me are extended family and thus are only eligible if they understand life and living as I do.
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Current obsession? Undertale...
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So why the long profile? Because time is a precious commodity. And if anyone wants to be friends with me or more I suppose it is better that everything be on the table rather than finding out you don't quite like someone later. I am an extremely shy person so being this open is... unsettling. But I also refuse to believe there are not others like me out there, living paradoxes, walking anomalies, aberrant minds, deviations from normality, oddities of reality.
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"A knight is sworn to valor,
His heart knows only virtue,
His blade defends the helpless,
His might upholds the weak,
His word speaks only truth,
His wrath undoes the wicked."
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If you understand the above quote without searching for it then congratulations: you are awesome.
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I'm not normally one to message or reach out to people (doing something as simple as saying "hello" is already hard enough for me... its just my introverted nature) so if you are interested in being friends or what not then I leave it to you, the reader, to act if any of this strikes your fancy enough.
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What I am looking for in a partner?
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Someone who I don't have to hide my true self with. Someone with whom I don't have to wear a mask. Someone who says what they mean, means what they say, has good values and sticks to them no matter the cost, and if they ever say something they don't mean they don't choose pride over the truth and apologizing. Someone who has no price. Someone who understands that money is a facilitator of happiness, not its source. Someone who I can wake up late with, cook breakfast with or go to iHOP, play video games with, go to Renfest, play D&D, take a nightly walk through the park while debating philosophy, anime and looking up at the stars, go home and watch an old movie we have probably seen 100 times or play a scary game together with, and go to bed snuggling all in the same day. Someone who is supportive and caring of someone in need or depressed and doesn't take offense to it. Someone who puts love above all else and keeps close the important things in life. Someone who understands what love is and what those important things are. Someone I could spend an entire day binging movies or anime, reading books, talking about religion or the supernatural, or drawing. Someone who is selfless and is willing to help their other through the good times and the bad no matter what. Someone who doesn't use the word love unless it actually applies and understands that love and like are not under any circumstance interchangeable. Someone who doesn't keep friends around because they are just there or because of history. Someone who holds people to their values but understands forgiveness. Someone who understands that the true measure of a relationship isn't getting along perfectly all the time, it is in forgiving one another and always loving each other no matter who said what or when in the end. Someone who can accept my fledgling entrepreneur lifestyle. Someone who is just as happy sleeping in all day as they are going surfing, to the movies, or hiking through the wilderness. Someone who can I can go to Disney World with and be just as happy running through all the parks and getting on all the rides as they are just taking their time and soaking in the atmosphere. Someone who is just as happy living in a mansion or a beach house as they are sleeping in the woods or a log cabin. The perfect companion during a zombie apocalypse. A sparing partner. A workout buddy. A best friend for life.
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I am looking for nothing less than the perfect person, or at least as close as mortals can come to it. Someone who understands me and my values. A real, deep connection. A Belle to my B east. A Fiona to my Shrek. An Arwen to my Aragorn. A Tauriel to my Kili. An Eowyn to my Faramir. A truly unbreakable bond. I know that is a lot to ask and I am a terrifyingly shy person so admitting all this is unsettling for me. Someone who was able to read through all of this because finding hat perfect person is that important to them. But if you are out there, and you think, believe, and yearn as I do for these things, "if you see what I see, if you feel as I feel, and if you would seek as I seek, then I ask you" to come forward because I exist.
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If you are out there. If you exist. I am here. I am waiting...
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Props, kudos, and congratulations if you read everything.
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